Judgemental

Being Judgemental

Judgemental has two aspects attached to it, i.e. positive OR negative. It is a belief that is developed about someone in the first meeting. People with superiority tends to become more judgemental about others, they never ever think once before speaking their mind out, that it will impact on the wholeness of somebody. It is a belief not an opine about people. Our society comprises of people with conservative mind, whose understanding is based on what people around them are projecting about somebody. They never discuss it with the concern or try to hear it straight from the horse’s mouth. 

To be judgemental has become a practice in the current era which sometimes leave people in a soup. Judging a person doesn’t define who they are but it defines who you are. Always try to be with people who understands you and let those pass by who are judgemental; jealous; every time tries to improvise you; always up to doing / taking things the wrong way. People should judge your life, nature, character when they have been into your shoes, walked through your path, live your pain; fear; happiness.   

                                                                       

I believe if we don’t entertain the juries around us it will make the society a better place to live. Live and let others live!

An excerpt from the writer’s life; She has faced it professionally wherein in spite being an asset to the team was not given her due appreciation and increment for the consecutive two years. Till date the reason is not known to her. Based on her understanding she says that her being straight forward; adamant towards the policies of the organization; focused and her ability to drive the challenges made her stand apart from others but her keeping things to herself (analysis of paralysis) in spite of knowing that there is a problem and the only solution to it was to speak/discuss it with the management, she never executed it practically.

We all are affected with "Analysis of Paralysis" at some point of our life, where we are well aware of the issues/problems and the solutions to it but just could not execute it practically. Personally or professionally in both the scenarios it is advisable not to become the victim of "Judgements" rather fight it with full positivity for better growth in life.

Hope this article gives a ray of hope in someone's journey of life.