Respect is a word that is
universally required socially or economically. It is not only limited to human
beings but also for the nation which comprises of variant religions,
mythologies, social mechanism.
Always believe to treat people
the way you want to be treated; speak the way you wish to be answered. Respect
is for those who deserve it and not for those who demand it. Irrespective of
age; positions or levels, one need to be treated courteously. To make someone
learn or understand the mistake made, is need to be explained tranquilly not to
sound exasperated. Annoying gesture will leave person with a scare and
disturbed mind, and sluggishly will stop feeling respect for you.
Relationships are two way inverse
relations and worth to be respected by both the parties involved and also has a
thin line which should not be crossed ever with the leverage of being rightful.
One should never be silent just because another one is older or elder, as it
will be losing one’s self esteem.
Knowledge being the most
important concept of life, and could earn power to you but requires to be
sharpen from time to time. Similarly personality will earn you respect and
needs to be dignified over the period of time. It will help to respect others
character; profession; commodities; feelings – as it might not mean or relate
to you anything but means everything to them.
Care for Respect!
An expert based on a girl’s
journey post her marriage to earn respect from her in-laws, husband and the
extended family of her husband. This scenario is true in both arranged / love
marriage and most of us have gone through the same OR most going through
the same currently. A very simple concept which the Indian families fail to
understand is that daughter-in-laws are the “Face of Family” in future,
who will take forward the legacy of the family forward and preach it to the
next generation as per the society’s current norms.
Post marriage it’s the
responsibility of new family, who need to make the newly wed bride accustom
with the family’s culture & traditions; need to give her time to settle
down and, then set an expectation from her. And the same is for the girl to
understand and adapt the family as her own and consider it as her first
priority.